sex + love

It’s been one year since I’ve had sex. One year by choice.

People never believe me when I tell them, but at the young age of 23, I choose …
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Nowadays 20-something virgins are as extinct as dinosaurs…or are they?

In this day and age where everything is over-sexualized, being an adult virgin is shunned and frowned upon. People automatically …
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He had been complaining that I wasn’t spending enough time with him.

We only saw each other maybe once or twice every month (and no it wasn’t in any …
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They say women die with a lot of secrets and this would’ve been one of them.

It was my sophomore year of college and Facebook was popping. I had …
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A compilation of freshly brewed reads curated for twenty + thirty somethings.

+ My Absentee Father Tried To Friend Me On Facebook I first learned my Dad’s birthday when he …
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How many of you have ever been with someone you thought you could never see your life without? If you’ve ever been that girl, I want to share a very …
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When I was in fourth grade, I was almost kidnapped and it didn’t really hit me until a year ago.

I was just getting off of the school bus in …
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Which one of my past relationships should I discuss? The one where I learned to have self-respect? The one where I was in a love triangle? Or the relationship where …
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“Where is your boyfriend?” “I don’t have one.” “Don’t tell me you don’t have a boyfriend…a beautiful, smart girl like yourself?”

That’s the reaction that I get now-a-days from friends, …
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