Posts By A Flower In The Wild

If I could write my 18 year-old self a letter… oh boy I would let me have it. I would say, hell no –don’t pick him. I would say, yeah, …
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Most days, I’m afraid for you. Some days, I’m afraid of you. I’m afraid you’ll turn into that person who is so familiar, but a stranger all the same. That …
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I’m 5’3 and I weigh about 113 pounds hmmm give or take. I have insecurities about my body frame. Now while most wish they could be my size, I …
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It’s been one year since I’ve had sex. One year by choice.

People never believe me when I tell them, but at the young age of 23, I choose …
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check out the list of 100 female creative millenials of color!

I’m sitting here at the McCarran International Airport looking at a picture of myself from 2011. Then I begin to reflect on the me I no longer recognize..

That …
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I can’t, and won’t apologize for being bougie. Yea, I said it. But wait, let me explain. Let’s start from the beginning. What is bougie?

Bougie (pronounced boo-jee) is …
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Nowadays 20-something virgins are as extinct as dinosaurs…or are they?

In this day and age where everything is over-sexualized, being an adult virgin is shunned and frowned upon. People automatically …
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He had been complaining that I wasn’t spending enough time with him.

We only saw each other maybe once or twice every month (and no it wasn’t in any …
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I remember the day my Aunt brought Blue Boy home to me, in his matching little cage. He was the first real pet I ever had, besides the stray …
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