sex + love

I used to think you didn’t effect me. I used to be proud of the fact that (I thought) I dealt with all those years and scattered memories by myself. …
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I’ve never referred to myself as a feminist outright, but it’s safe to say I’m a feminist based on my views and beliefs.

Because of how I grew up and …
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This is a public service announcement on the behalf of my future married self and my sister friends in the struggle.

Have you ever dated a guy with a child …
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Instagrammers, let’s keep it real. Instagram’s massive popularity stems from one basic fact:

We like to see what other people are doing. 

We don’t want to read about it on …
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“To be honest with you,” he said, “when I go through my day I do not think of you. I have so much going on…” His voice trailed off. “I …
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Single, black, gorgeous (so they say), woman. I woke up to rolling thunder and flashes of lightening. 6:30AM, 15 minutes before my third cell-phone alarm would blare, telling me to …
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Okay, I admit it! There are times I feel like my twenties are just wasting away before my very eyes. I have less than two years left to make the …
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I don’t know what this guy was thinking. We weren’t dating. We weren’t having sex. We’d made out a few times but that was it. Why would he buy me …
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