10 years ago
Just Because I Don’t Have A Man Doesn’t Mean I’m A Lesbian
Many, many years ago I was walking home with my friend when a guy rolled up on us and wanted to holla. He wanted my name and number. I declined …
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10 years ago
I Don’t Have Energy For Marriage and Motherhood
Dear Momma,
I’ve been meaning to tell you that I know you like being by yourself, at least that is what you claim, but I am here to stay. So, …
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10 years ago
Online Dating Sucks: The 3 Types Of Men You’ll Find
I am pretty reserved, I guess. I like to lay in between my sheets with my laptop across from me and just relax in completely quiet. I think everyone …
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10 years ago
Filthy Fruit: I’m A Work In Progress
Do you remember the Natalie Cole biopic where she played herself in the end? I saw it years ago and the scene that’s always stuck with me, even now, is …
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10 years ago
And You Tried To Change Didn’t You?
you are a horse running alone and he tries to tame you compares you to an impossible highway to a burning house says you are blinding him that he could …
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10 years ago
Make Yourself Small To Win, Being Too Big Can Sometimes Be Too Much
Image Source: Kerry Washington for EBONY Mag, March 2013
10 years ago
There IS Something Wrong With Nicki Minaj’s Anaconda Cover: The Flip-Side
This is not an open letter to Onika, a penned piece diminishing her role as an undeniable pop-icon because of ass shots & record covers focusing on shots of …
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10 years ago
Judge Not Our Little Sisters
Last night when a young woman bursting with enthusiasm asked for my supervisor, I knew she wanted to know if our location was hiring. She had glowing skin, and a …
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10 years ago
Not Getting What I Want And Still Being Happy
Want – verb have a desire to possess or do (something); wish for
I was raised with the ideology to know what you want in life. “You want it? Go …
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