His piercing, blood shot eyes were hidden behind dark shades, yet the sneaky smile plastered on his face revealed his lustful desires – exposed, uninhibited.
It’s 3 am.
I’m sitting in the chair, my mind racing at unimaginable speeds, as I stare, wide-eyed, at his 6’5, 200+ pound frame sprawled across my bed.
You see, what started as a friendly gesture to give a friend a lift, turned into a disgusting twist of intimidation and fear as he crossed the line of friendship. Before I could open the car door, he grabs my room key and insists on seeing me “safely” inside.
Blinded by naivety, I laugh, thank him for the kind gesture and stand by the open door, welcoming his exit.
He doesn’t leave.
Instead, he proceeds to pick me up with both hands and throw me on my bed.
The door slams shut. I’m terrified, vulnerable…
I quickly roll off the bed and grab my phone to call someone but to no avail.
He threatens, “I wouldn’t do that if I were you.”
So I sit. Calculating my next move as I watch him quietly devise his plan. This guy, who disguised himself as a friend, has turned into my worst enemy in a matter of minutes. He stretches across my bed and just stares, waiting for me to surrender and give him exactly what he came for. Will I be a victim? Did my short dress and exposed legs extend his invitation to come inside?
An hour passes.
He refuses to leave. He’s holding me hostage, restraining me with his words. He dares me to try and contact someone as he posts his large body closer to the door, blocking my exit. I start to wonder how many girls there were before me. How many times he’d succeeded.
Then I stand, refusing to be another notch in his belt. He jumps up and comes toward me, cornering me against the wall, towering over my small, 120-pound frame. I push back, fighting for my dignity. My future. My freedom.
After he shoves me back with one hand, I take off for the door, running up the stairs to the top floor of my dorm where I hide in an empty study room. Shaking and sobbing, I wait, expecting him to come after me and anticipating the outcome.
It’s 5 am.
The sun begins to rise and penetrate the darkness of my night. Time has passed and my phone rings. He realizes I’m not coming back so he decides to leave.
He tells me to come outside to retrieve my keys, only to find them dangling outside of his car window with the same sneaky grin across his face. The games have not ceased. I snatch my keys and run to the safety of my room — the same place that was disguised as my prison only hours before.
The sun has risen.
I lay there contemplating the occurrences of the night and replaying them over and over in my head. Wondering, how did I allow that to happen? Blaming myself for being too trusting and unsuspecting.
I couldn’t help but think, if only I had taken the bus.
model / isabeli fontana
January 15, 2014
Dear.God.
January 15, 2014
Amazing. The fight in you from that moment to telling your story now is amazing. Were you able to fight out of that situation or did he prevail? And you are not to blame for the sick twisted ways of some people. Your scars are beautiful.
January 15, 2014
Thanks Chymere! Thank God he didn’t prevail. Once he got up I was able to get past him and get out of the room. But it was definitely a scary experience, I had no idea what was going to happen that night. Thanks again for reading!
January 16, 2014
You had my heart beating with this one. I’m glad that everything worked out for you and I’m sorry you had to go through this.
January 17, 2014
Wow! I am so relieved with the outcome of this. How awful and frightening, but how courageous you were for not giving in, without knowing what he was capable of.
January 17, 2014
What a powerful and amazing post. It is so scary how some men think they are due sexual favors for just being nice. It disgusts me.
January 20, 2014
Wow, frightening.
January 22, 2014
Wow sis…wow…it hurts me to know how afraid you were…and I was not there to protect you like I am always. Thank God that you were not a victim for your sake and HIS. I love you and thank god for you.
January 22, 2014
Latoya I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again! WHEW! This is — no words.
January 27, 2014
Did he ever get caught?